Guide
40 How Well Do You Know Me Questions for Couples
Forty how well do you know me questions for couples, from easy everyday ones to long-distance and future ones, plus a free two-player game that asks them and keeps score.
Play How Well Do You Know Me online
with a friend
Play How Well Do You Know Me online with your partner or a friend. Answer each question for yourself, guess their answer, and find out who knows who better. Free, live, and nothing to download.
Free, no signup. You get a link to send.
How to play How Well Do You Know Me online
- Start a room, pick a question pack (Couples, Us, Future, Everyday, Friends or Deep), and send the link to the person you want to play.
- Each round shows one question with four answers. Pick the one that is true for you, then guess which one they picked.
- You both answer at the same time. Neither of you can see the other's answer until you have locked in your own, so there is no copying.
- When you have both locked in, the round is revealed: what they said, what you guessed, and the same the other way round.
- You score a point for every answer of theirs you guessed right. After the last round, whoever knew the other better wins.
- Rematch deals a fresh set of questions from the same pack.
Free, no signup. You get a link to send.
Why How Well Do You Know Me works over a distance
Long-distance couples ask for this one more than any other. Every reveal starts a conversation ("you really thought I'd pick the beach?"), and you end up talking about the answers for way longer than it took to give them.
It works best on a call. Put each other on video or speaker, open the room in your browser, and play through ten questions together. A game takes about five minutes, and the Deep pack turns it into the kind of conversation that's easy to skip when you only get an hour on the phone.
Answers are sealed on the server until you have both locked in, so the only way to get one right is to actually know them. The Friends pack keeps it light for a best friend, a sibling or a group chat that wants to settle who knows who best.
Also known as how well do you know me quiz, couples quiz online, know your partner quiz, newlywed game online, friendship quiz for two.
Questions
- Is this a good game for long-distance couples?
- Yes, I wrote it with them in mind. The Couples pack is about date nights, visits, love languages and the things you miss. Us is about the two of you, Future is about where you're headed, and Everyday is the small stuff you only learn by living together. Every reveal gives you something to talk about.
- Can my partner see my answer before they choose?
- No. Your answer stays on the server until they have locked in theirs. Nothing about your pick reaches their screen early.
- How many questions are there?
- A hundred and twenty, twenty in each of six packs. Couples, Us, Future and Everyday are for partners, Friends is for anyone, and Deep goes further. A game uses five, ten or fifteen from one pack, picked at random, and a rematch deals a fresh set.
- Does it work on a phone?
- Yes. It runs in the browser on any phone, tablet or laptop, so you can play in one tab while you talk in another app.
- Can I play it on my own?
- No. It only works with a real person on the other end. Every other game in the arcade has a solo mode if you want one.
Free, no signup. You get a link to send.
Guides with How Well Do You Know Me in them
From the blog
- Guide
60 This or That Questions for Couples and Friends
Sixty this or that questions to ask on a call: thirty for couples, thirty for friends, and a free two-player game where you both answer at the same moment and score together.
- Guide
How to Play Games on a Video Call: FaceTime, WhatsApp, Meet and Zoom
How to keep a FaceTime, WhatsApp or Meet call running in a corner while you play a two-player game in your browser, on iPhone, Android and laptop. No screen sharing needed.
- New game
In Sync: a this-or-that game for couples and friends, scored together
In Sync is a new two-player this-or-that game. You both pick at once, and every round you land on the same side adds to one shared score. Nobody wins, nobody loses.
- Update
How Well Do You Know Me gets three new question packs
Us, Future and Everyday: sixty new questions for How Well Do You Know Me, about first impressions, closing the distance and where the clean laundry lives.
The rest of the arcade
- In SyncThis or that, picked at the same time. See how often you land on the same side.
- Tic-Tac-ToeThree in a row. Thirty seconds a game, and somehow still tense.
- Connect 4Drop, stack, and pretend you didn't miss the diagonal.
- Word DuelSame secret word, two boards, six guesses. No waiting for turns.
- Dots & BoxesDraw a line, close a square, go again. Ruthless in the endgame.
- ReversiTrap a line, flip it all. The lead changes hands every turn.
- BattleshipFive ships, one hundred squares, and no idea where they are.
- CheckersForced captures, jump chains, and the long walk to a crown.
- Dice DuelFive dice, three rolls, thirteen boxes. Luck you can play badly.
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